10. ASTRAL LOVE
“Don’t think. Feel” – Bruce Lee
The first question that comes to mind when people hears of astral love and sex is whether it is actually possible to experience astral love and sex. The answer to that is yes. Astral love is very possible and many astral projectors have had sexual experiences while in the astral dimension as either real-time or spontaneous sex with other astral projectors. People are yet to accept the possibility of enjoying astral love and sex due to the long-standing misunderstandings, lack of knowledge, lack of experience and wrong concepts about astral sex. In this chapter, we will take a close look at the controversial concepts and demystify them in a bid to understand what astral love and sex is and how anyone can enjoy it.
As aforementioned, there is a lot of controversy about astral love and sex because people do not know that it actually exists. Conversely, the religious bodies have for long condemned astral love and sex as evil and a taboo that is only practiced by dark worldly societies. Even the people who have learnt about astral love and sex are derailed from daring to trigger the experiences due to fear of religious orthodoxy. Notably, some people are just afraid of the unknown and prefer to believe what religion teaches about astral projection in general as evil.
Having a spiritual lover and sex partner is an awakening that a person must experience in order to fully understand its glory. Note that, I am not referring to having a random sexual encounter with any astral entity who may be interested in you; the best astral love and sex experience occurs when you have it with an astral entity with whom you resonate. That’s to say, astral love and sex is not so much different from the physical love and sex we experience: you must have the right partner.
An astral lover and sex partner can be anyone in the astral realm with whom you share an attraction and a desire to exchange the astral sex energy. Meaning that, it is best to choose an astral lover who doubles as your teaching spirit, guardian and personal guide. With such a partner, you are bound to feel safe because the level of trust will be high, the love they show towards you will also be a motivator for you to learn about their consciousness. As discussed in previous chapters, the astral world is inhibited by both good and dark beings. Therefore, it is upon you to ensure that you do not engage with a dark astral being because through the exchange of sexual energies you can carry their dark energies along with you to the physical world.
An astral lover and sex partner should be an entity who is as caring and loving as your true physical lover would be. In most cases, the astral lover is a being who loved you way before you were even born and for lifetimes and centuries. See that? This what makes astral love and sex so magical and fulfilling. In some instances, you probably have both existed in the physical world at the same time but never got in touch. Or either of you was in the physical world while the other was watching from the astral world. One thing remains: the love you have for each other remains even in instances when you can only meet and feel each other while in the astral bodies only. But, since most people are unaware of this, they barely take the initiative to pursue astral love yet on the other end, their astral lovers are eager and ready to help you through the astral projection and ultimately astral love journey. Just like a lover would be ready to do anything for you, the astral entity is interested in more than just making love to you. Hence, an astral relationship offers the same warmth, satisfaction and tenderness as a physical relationship. The only difference is that astral relationships are renewed each time you astral travel.
Since the human senses are more intense while on the astral plane than while on the physical world, you are bound to discover new and enhanced love feelings that you never imagined you would experience. Moreover, in this day and age when STD and STI infections are at an all time high, astral sex may be the safest sex option that humans have so long a person does not get involved with any astral spirit that expresses interest in them. I insist: you must be wary of the dark astral spirits.
Physical engagement during sex is actually the least important. Emotions and attraction towards each other are what drive enjoyment and meaning to the sexual act. The astral body is also known as the emotional body, meaning that the ability for humans to experience all the excitement, romance, mystique and desire relationships have to offer is carried into the astral world with you when you astral project. Without emotions, there would be no value in sexual engagement whether it happens in the physical or astral world.
If astral love and sex can be so intense and exciting, then why are religions so much against it? Why do they claim that spiritual beings have no ability to engage in sex? Or that engaging in sex with a spiritual being is a sin and possibly an act of witchcraft? As highlighted at the beginning of this chapter, the public and religions are against astral love and sex because they lack adequate information about it. The lack of information could be attributed to several reasons: the fact that real information about astral relationships has been lost: people are afraid of even discussing it or ,worse still, people are trying it due to the condemnation it gets in religious gatherings; and orthodox religions are against people knowing more about astral planes out of fear that the knowledge would compromise the control they have leading to questions about their narrow afterlife vision.
You probably have heard of the terms incubus and succubus; they are referred to as nasty astral entities that force themselves sexually on people in their sleep. They are likened to rapists in the physical world. These astral entities do exist but they have no relation to the authentic astral lovers. If an astral entity tries to have sex with you while you are in the physical state, you can be sure that that is not your astral lover. That is a nasty low-level entity who craves physical sex and would go to any length to get it whether they have to hurt their victim or not. Such astral entities who are sexually addicted have similar traits with deceased drug and alcohol addicts; they still crave and demand the drugs and alcohol. They do not care who they have to hurt or what they have to damage to satisfy their desires. As such, you should reject such astral entities because if they hook up to your lowest chakra or root center, they can be hard to let go. If by any chance you feel as though an astral entity has attached themselves to your lowest chakra or root center, it is important that you take immediate action to invoke a disconnection. Start by cleaning your aura, wear a protection amulet and consecrate until you feel that you have achieved a disconnection. After achieving the disconnection, evaluate your thoughts and emotions carefully to determine why you could have attracted a low-level entity especially if you had not consented to the hook-up. If the hook-up was an agreement, determine what led you to agree to it. As a precaution, abstain from astral sex for at least six weeks after achieving the disconnection. The six weeks period of abstinence gives room for breaking any remaining connection that you may have with the low-level astral entity.
Incubus is a Latin word that means “that which lies upon” while succubus means “that which lies beneath.” Incubus is a male low-level astral entity that preys on women while succubus is a female low-level entity that preys on men. These are the astral entities that visit people at night in their sleep and force sex upon them. On the contrary, an astral lover will never force sex or a relationship upon you whether you are in the physical or astral state. As a precaution to avoid engaging with the wrong astral entities, it is advisable to insist on a courtship with the astral entity you are interested in before engaging in sex or anything more than companionship. Compare this with the physical world: if a stranger approached you and suggested having sex with you albeit forcefully without caring to develop a connection first, you would probably be offended and avoid having any relation with them. The same should apply in the astral world.
This brings us to the next interesting point about the astral world. There are actually entities that act as the astral police and can be called upon to help with restraining threatening entities and for protection. The astral police entities are easily recognizable because they have a brilliant white light that surrounds them and they respond instantly when you call them. These are the entities that some people refer to as guardians or angels oblivious of the fact that they have a totally different vibration, aura type and function. They are the astral police who have similar duties as the physical police. They are overworked too and their duty is to patrol the astral world, rounding up the dangerous low-level entities who attack humans and return them to the astral realm.
Additionally, the astral police have the power to arrest and imprison the low-level disturbed and disturbing entities so that they can stop harassing humans while either in the physical or astral state. But, there are some humans who help the imprisoned entities to break jail unknowingly by constantly thinking about them and desiring to spend time with them. A good example for this scenario is when a lover dies and their lover is left thinking too much about them and constantly wishing that they were still able to make love to them. As mentioned in the previous chapters, when a person dies in the physical realm, their spirit moves into the astral plane and carries along their worldly beliefs, desires, opinions and prejudices. Naturally, their spirit is carried to a particular astral plane where they can relate with companions of similar traits. If the spirit happens to find a person in the physical with whom it has strong ties to, it can take advantage of the strong emotions to develop contact.
The spirit of a deceased person travels to an astral space that corresponds to their personal belief of what the afterlife is. This is what we refer to as heaven and hell; the two are recreated based on the spirit’s expectations. However, once a spirit progresses and develops a need to live beyond their self-created heaven or hell, it moves about on other astral planes, attends classes and learns as it prepares for reincarnation. Notably, there are some spirits that reject the whole idea of there being a heaven or hell. If such spirits are corrupt and negative in deeds and thoughts they are confined in the dark low-level astral realms. The low-level astral realms harbor a combination of mental wards, state penitentiaries and crime ridden ghetto slums as likened to the physical world. Hence, they are full of chaos, dangerous, evil and unstable emotional energies. This is why astral projectors are advised to be wary of low-level entities as they can accost them both in the astral and physical states.
Conversely, as you endeavor to find your astral lover, never assume that all the astral entities have your best interest at heart. All the evils that exist on earth also exist in the astral realm. The worldly rapists, serial killers, corruption maniacs, sex offenders and murderers live in the low-level astral planes eager to accost and attach to astral travelers. In essence, the astral police work with the earth-bound astral spirits whose main activity is haunting places but they do not have the authority to remove them from earth forcefully unless they are called upon. They can also remove them forcefully if the spirits become criminals or threaten humans; they are arrested and confined.
A strategy used by sex addict spirits in the low-level astral planes is sending sexual thoughtforms to people they fantasize having sex with. Though this may be a rare occurrence, it definitely happens and there are cases where people report spiritual lovers/love makers who accost them at night and do not know how they got in the mess. The sexual thoughtforms are quite aggressive and if you lack the strength or knowledge to realize that you are being attacked by a low-level being who wants to use you, it may be hard for you to reject them. To fight the thoughtforms, you should summon your astral teachers, the astral police and astral lover if you already have one to remove the thoughtforms and imprison the responsible spirit.
The presence of negative physical relationships in your physical world can also attract the evil low-level entities. If you are engaged in a relationship that is morally wrong or degrades you like cheating on a spouse, partners or your spouse/partner cheating on you and you put up with it or engage with someone’s spouse if you are single, you are at risk of being faced by an evil low-level entity. This is because you draw thoughtforms and astral entities to yourself based on the mental and emotional states that exist in your aura. It is advisable to ensure that your morals are high both in the physical and astral worlds.
Note that having deliberate sexual contact with a low- level negative entity contaminates you with what is referred to as psychic lice or psychic venereal disease. You become like a sex magnet that attracts every other low-level entity that is interested in having physical sex. This is because the psychic lice inhibit your aura and infect it. Their infection results in a breakdown of your auric shield leaving you vulnerable to emotional traumas, physical diseases and worse still a decline to everything, especially good luck and prosperity. The belief that astral entities have sexual intercourse with humans is an ancient one. Luckily, ancient people knew how to differentiate between genuine astral lovers and astral sex offenders. They also believed that children would be born from astral-human relationships.
For instance, in Greek mythology, it is hard to determine whether some of the astral spirits crossed the line between consensual and forceful sex. There are many ancient stories of Greek “gods'' who forced themselves on mortal women. These stories were re-written after the patriarchal clans took over; it is hard to tell if the stories talked about astral lovers and their human partners. There are some of the “gods” who genuinely cared for their human lovers and the children they bore as a result of their relationships. These “gods'' are thought to have been genuine astral lovers. There were other entities that just went to have sex forcefully; these were categorized as astral rapists. The offspring of the astral rapists were considered demigods by ancient Greeks. In some cases, the offspring were immediately dubbed demi gods or deities and were assumed to always be in the astral form while ones from the “legitimate” astral relationships were considered to be in human nature and form. Conversely, when Christianity took over, the astral lovers and rapists were classified together as demons.
The Celtic Scots were aware of the astral lovers and referred to them as the Leannain Sith, familiar spirits or faery lovers. Astral sex with the astral entities was quite common among the Celtic Scots to the extent where a clergy man by the name Robert Kirk warned people against its practice in his faeries book. He acknowledged that many young men would engage sexually with female entities and he referred to them as strumpets and paramours. He further acknowledged that both men and women would have astral lovers and women would even bear children for their astral lovers. According to Geoffrey of Monmouth, the Merlin was a result of such a union between an astral entity and a mortal woman. He referred to the astral entities as familiar spirits.
In Shamanic practices and traditions, having sexual intercourse or contact with an astral spirit was acceptable and also a common practice among the Shamans. They would acknowledge having astral wives and husbands with whom they would bring forth children. The children would then be raised in other worlds by their astral parents and would never be said to have physical forms. In the Shamanic traditions, the children remaining in the astral realms were more common as opposed to children who were born mortal.
There are some magickal traditions that used the astral lovers as a substitute to physical sex. The available records listed that only females practiced this though there probably were a few men who practiced it, as well. In Mexico, there remain a few female witches who still make use of an unguent known as toloache that they believe enables them to call on their astral lovers. The unguent is made of deadly herbs similar to those used as flying ointment by the medieval witches. Such women are said to have no use for men, something that is considered wicked by both the churches and men. This takes us back to the witch trial details where women who confessed to use certain ointments for astral projection described their sexual encounters with astral lovers as intensively pleasant. Their confessions were altered by witch hunters who decided that their stories were too good to be true; they changed the narratives to paint a picture of disgusting sexual experiences. Never try to use flying concoctions or drugs to connect with your astral lover. Such methods of invoking astral love and sex only attract the dangerous low-level entities and you would have to contend with all sorts of negative spirits. If you give no consideration to how you get your astral sex, then you are bound to get what you deserve, an unpleasant experience. You will have availed yourself to misuse by any low-level entity that shows interest. You become a free prostitute for the worst types of astral entities.
The information about negative astral entities may make you apprehensive and reluctant to search for an astral lover. But, all you need to do is maintain a high goal and level of ethics that the low-level entities cannot contend with. Take your time to get acquainted with your astral lover by spending time, sharing your innate feelings, desires and thoughts. Engage in minimal kissing and hugging and evaluate whether you feel cared for and loved while in their presence. Note that, if you have a physical lover or spouse, having an astral lover is not cheating. This is because, your physical partner is your lover in the physical existence plane while your astral partner is your lover in the astral plane only.
Conversely, your astral lover may be more tolerant with the relationships you have in the physical plane. They understand that the physical only lasts for a short time before you transition into the astral plane as you await reincarnation.
It is normal to fear making contact with your astral lover at first and even fear their touch. Once you bond and move to the next stage of love making, the fear of making contact will gradually disappear. Note that fear and tension keep you from having a positive and great experience with your astral lover and would also prevent you from astral projecting as earlier explained. You should try to place yourself in a joyful state awaiting your astral lover while at the same time not being too desperate for an astral lover as this may drive you to engage with the negative beings. Note that astral lovers also tell compliments that may not always be true just like physical lovers do in a bid to make you happy. So, if your lover tells you that you were a great and prominent person in your past life, take that as a complement and not necessarily a truth.
Qualities of A Genuine Astral Lover
Here is how you tell that your astral lover is actually genuine: they are never jealous of your physical relationships and lovers; they will not want you to be lonely while in the physical world; they rejoice with you when you are happy or have achieved something; and will be there to console you in times of sorrow. Astral lovers will be there to assist you in any way possible when you need their help and will push you to improve your life, achieve spiritual enlightenment and health without demanding anything in return. They will always
work with you for your benefit both in the physical and astral worlds. They will advise you, warn of impending danger and help you heal when you are unwell. An astral lover will gladly provide you with any information you need to thrive in the physical world, guide on how to see and seize opportunities that make your life on earth better. They want you to have a fulfilling life in the physical as they wait for you to join them in the astral world. With such actions, you will at some point want to do something for them in return. In such a scenario, an astral lover may suggest you repay them by healing or helping another person in the physical world. If an astral lover is genuine, they would never suggest you do something that you deem wrong or something that is against your morals.
With this in mind, you should never be afraid of asking your astral lover for help when you feel stuck. Whether you need some advice or you need to improve your financial status, discuss this with your astral lover. Like a genuine physical lover, they will help you in the best way they can. The best you can do to protect your astral lover is not talk about them as this exposes them to ridicule and hate from people in the physical especially those who do not understand or support astral projection and astral love. This means that you should not disclose your astral relationship to your physical lover or spouse especially if you know that they would not understand such an arrangement. It would not be uncommon for a physical lover to conclude that you are cheating on them or engaging in some form of witchcraft.
Despite how magical and fulfilling astral love and sex may be, do not lose your head or yourself to the extent where you compromise your physical relationships. Such actions may trigger an imbalance in your aura and cause issues that may be hard for you to solve. You want to have a smooth and beneficial astral relationship that does not compromise your life as well as the well-being of the people in your life. If you have followed all the guidelines discussed in the previous chapters, by now you should be comfortable with your astral projection experiences and able to experience things in the astral with your psychic senses. The idea of astral love and sex may still strike you as something extreme and impossible to achieve. You may have thought astral projection is hard and impossible to achieve but then you managed to achieve it after practice, so is astral love and sex. All you need is time to get accustomed to the idea and be comfortable enough to engage with an astral being without fear. Take a moment to think about your previous astral projection experiences. Did you feel a touch from your astral teacher? Did you trigger certain emotions when you thought about past life events? Do not be quick to disqualify yourself from a new love and sexual experience simply because you are either turned off by the term astral sex or are too afraid to try it.
The human made theories of time and space do not apply in the astral world. According to Dr. John Mariani of the New York Academy of Sciences, under certain conditions, time does not respond to what is considered as its normal manner. Time and space can interchange suddenly with each other. When we evaluate these findings from a spiritual view point; if an individual’s vibrations are of a higher frequency than is considered normal, the individual is able to make contact with astral entities. Therefore, when seeking an astral lover, you must take extra care at how you exit the physical world to enter the astral world than when practicing regular astral projection. This is how you avoid attracting the attention of low level and negative beings.
As discussed in the previous chapters, you leave the body to astral project through chakras or light centers. In this case, the chakra through which you leave the physical body must be carefully considered. You should avoid leaving the body through the two lower chakras as that would be a sure ticket to attracting the low-level beings. Set your vibration frequency high by leaving the body through the higher chakras. For instance, the solar plexus center ties a projector to pure emotions. If you use this light center you can open communication with the spirits of deceased loved ones which may or may be pleasant. Nonetheless, if you want to make more meaningful and positive spiritual connections, you must tap into the higher centers. Your astral relationship should be a highly spiritual encounter whether or not your end up having astral sex or not. Utilize the crown or brow centers as you exist points when seeking an astral lover or when traveling to meet with your astral lover after the first encounter with them.
Searching for Your Astral Lover
Before getting on the astral journey in search of your astral lover, tune your thoughts to think of true love and companionship. Prepare yourself as you would when going on a first date with your physical lover. Wear some nice smelling perfume, brush your hair and be in a good receptive mood. If possible set your table with some pink scented candles and flowers. Wear a sexy night gown or stay nude. If these actions arouse your physical lover, go ahead and enjoy the night with them as this will not make your astral lover jealous. Conversely, physical love making will go a long way at making it easier for you to tap into your psychic and emotions needed to attract your astral lover.
Once everything is ready and well set out, go out into the astral world as you would. Ensure that you trigger your consciousness through the brow center before you exit the physical body. Once you get to the astral realm, call out for your astral lover and you might be surprised to find them waiting for you. Note that connections from past lives make such bonds so strong and pure that one sincere thought will draw the two of you together. After meeting your astral lover for the first time, take time to examine them; their eyes, face contours and hair. Where possible, seek to know the nationality they choose to represent. At the first meeting, the astral lover might remember the clothing and features in the past that meant something to both of you. This is how they help you recall the memories from the period of time you may have met.
Clasp hands with your lover to feel their loving touch and where possible embrace each other in a hug that is bound to trigger intense joy for both of you. Your astral lover may suggest spending time in the garden temple where the Akashic records are maintained. This is often the enlightening experience. If you had trouble understanding your Akashic records, this is an opportunity to view them in better light with your lover by your side ready to help you understand them. They will interpret the records for you and guide you on how to interpret them by yourself. Of course, your lover will choose records from the lifetime you had met and spend time together but that does not mean that they may not be willing to help you understand records from other lifetimes.
Take a few more astral journeys to meet your astral lover and get to know them better. During the visits your lover will probably take you to some interesting locations both in the astral and physical worlds both forward and backward in time. If you would like to contact the spirit of a deceased loved one, the astral lover may help you get into contact with them. They will do everything to arrange a meeting between the two of you. Remember your astral lover will do anything to make you happy.
Astral Sex
Eventually, both of you will want to express love and joy in other ways than just spending time together, kissing or hugging. This is when astral sex will happen. Do not expect that astral sex will be the same as physical sex. They are two totally different sexual encounters. Your astral lover will guide you through the astral love making process, they will be gentle and will ensure that you have a great love making experience. Since there is no way of explaining the beauty and intensity of the astral love making experience, I can only share the basics of what you can expect to happen.
When you meet your astral lover for love making, you will feel as though the throat center is increasing in size. Allow that to happen because it helps in clearing other chakras through removal of obstructions. The throat center expansion also boosts your intensity and creativity of the psychic talents. Above all, it produces a sexual tingling feeling throughout the body. At this point, you and your astral lover will move close together, face each other and ensure that your chakra lines are well lined up. This is when astral sex begins in the form of a light center intercourse. It is a fantastic exchange of energies that makes physical sex feel like a child’s play. However, you cannot fully understand this until you have experience astral sex. In some cases, astral sex may produce some corresponding reaction to the physical body whereby you will experience an orgasm as you would when having physical sex. In other cases, you may wake up in an intense mood for sex and surprise your physical lover with some steamy love making.
Love making on the astral plane with your astral lover is not a sin or evil as orthodox religions may want you to believe. It is a bona fide spiritual encounter that awakens your soul and emotions. Knowing the truth behind the ancient secrets about astral love and sex paves way for the divorced, widowed and single people to live a sexually satisfied and fulfilling life without having to adhere to marriage rites as required by churches and society. This understanding draws you away from the control of religious organizations and societies that interfere with people’s lives. It also makes you resistant to proposals from insincere physical suitors or being desperate for a physical lover.
Another benefit of having an astral lover is that they do not want you to be alone both in the physical and astral worlds especially if you truly want to have a physical companion. Therefore, they will help you draw in the right physical companion. This is because the relationship you have with your astral lover prepares you emotionally and mentally for a time when the right physical person shows up in your life. You will know what to expect and what you want from a physical lover. Astral love helps you get rid of any relationship compromises that people have in the physical such as one partner giving their all and the other being a taker and not giving anything in return.
If you are in a physical relationship that you deem unsatisfying or undesirable, your astral lover can help you disengage and end the relationship in a peaceful manner while protecting you where need arises. After disengaging from the undesirable physical relationship, your astral lover will hold your hand and teach you how to rebuild your self- dignity, respect and esteem. Once this is achieved and you are ready to have another physical relationship, your astral lover will help you by placing the ideal person within your environment. You may also choose to engage in astral love and sex in instances where you and your physical lover are separated by distance and you wish to have a sexual relationship. Simply make plans to meet with your lover in the astral plane at night. Make all the necessary preparations as you would do when traveling to meet your astral lover. Hold your lover's face in your mind as you fall asleep. To astral travel, exit through the crown or brow centers and the two of you will meet in the astral plane. You will have a similar love making experience as you would with your astral lover.
You should arrange an astral meet up with your long- distance lover unless they have agreed to it. Otherwise, the astral love would be considered rape. Just like you would not want other astral projectors to force themselves on you, do not do the same to your physical lover. If your physical partner is against the idea of astral sex, do not push them.
Instead, continue enjoying time with your astral lover as you wait for your physical lover to come through.
Choosing to acknowledge your astral lover and spending time with them can help you progress both spiritually and physically. With their help, you can improve your financial well-being, get better results when you practice astral healing and magick and, above all, have a sure warning against psychic attacks or any impending negative events in the physical. An astral lover can be a guide, a friend, protector, teacher, advisor, and companion. You will never feel alone or despondent once you find your astral lover. The beauty of having an astral relationship is that it has endured the test of time for centuries and is bound to survive for centuries. Your astral lover was with you as you were being born into the world and they will be waiting for you when you leave the world to return to the spiritual realm.
Chapter Summary
Astral love and sex is as real as physical love and sex.
A genuine astral lover will never be jealous of your physical lover and will always be supportive.
Astral love and sex is more intense and magical as compared to physical sex.
In the next chapter you will learn about astral healing.